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About Lindsay

My upbringing in suburbia was so uneventful it would have been too boring for a 1950s TV show. The predictability and safety of everyday life were surpassed only by my desire to grow up so I could fall in love properly. At 25, I married my high school sweetheart, moved to Denver, and pursued a conventional happily ever after. 


Until my husband asked if he could date a mutual friend. I found out that letting my husband date made him a better husband and me a better wife. I learned to date, no easy fete for a married thirty-something. And I learned that I didn’t have to live by the childhood rules of predictability and safety. Now I get to fall in love repeatedly.


I hold a BA in English literature, an MA in Communication, and an MA in Couple and Family Therapy. I do a little bit of a lot of things. When not working on my PhD, I can be found hiking, reading, or relaxing with friends and family. 


Learn more about my therapy practice, research, public speaking, or life as a PhD student.


Lindsay Hayes presenting research on polyamory at a conference.

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I've delivered trainings for therapists and sex educators such as "Beyond the Dyad: Polyamory and EFT" and "Does Ethical Nonmonogamy work? What the Research Says"

Lindsay Hayes, working on a laptop, doing research.

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I specialize in qualitative research and polyamory. I'm a total geek for this stuff!

Lindsay Hayes in Edinburgh, Scotland.

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"Travel is about the gorgeous feeling of teetering in the unknown." 

- Anthony Bourdain

Lindsay with a pet rabbit.

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My coworkers are bunnies! I also volunteer with the Rocky Mountain House Rabbit Society. 

Coloring book page that says "carpe the fucking diem."

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Sometimes it's ice skating, sometimes it's watercolor painting, sometimes it's good old-fashioned coloring.

Lindsay Hayes, relationship therapist, sitting in a wingback chair, facing the camera

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I specialize in Emotionally Focused Therapy for Couples and narrative therapy.


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