Lindsay L. Hayes, MA MFTC

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Lindsay L. Hayes, MA MFTC

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About Lindsay

I hold a BA in English literature, an MA in Communication, and an MA in Couple and Family Therapy. I do a little bit of a lot of things. When not working on my PhD, I can be found hiking, reading, or relaxing with friends and family. 


My upbringing in suburbia was so uneventful it would have been too boring for a 1950s TV show. The predictability and safety of everyday life were surpassed only by my desire to grow up so I could fall in love properly. At 25, I married her high school sweetheart, moved to Denver, and pursued a conventional happily ever after. 


Until my husband asked if he could date a mutual friend. I found out that letting my husband date made him a better husband and me a better wife. I learned to date, no easy fete for a married thirty-something. And I learned that I didn’t have to live by the childhood rules of predictability and safety. Now I get to fall in love repeatedly.


Learn more about my therapy practice, research, public speaking, or life as a PhD student.


Lindsay Hayes presenting research on polyamory at a conference.

Speaker

Psychotherapist

Psychotherapist

I've delivered trainings for therapists and sex educators such as "Beyond the Dyad: Polyamory and EFT" and "Does Ethical Nonmonogamy work? What the Research Says"

Lindsay Hayes, relationship therapist, sitting in a wingback chair, facing the camera

Psychotherapist

Psychotherapist

Psychotherapist

I specialize in Emotionally Focused Therapy, narrative therapy, and currently work at Legacy Trails Therapy.

Lindsay Hayes, working on a laptop, doing research.

Researcher

Psychotherapist

Avid Traveler

I specialize in qualitative research and polyamory. I'm a total geek for this stuff!

Lindsay Hayes in Edinburgh, Scotland.

Avid Traveler

Random Hobby Doer

Avid Traveler

Nothing beats taking a 50,000-foot view of life from afar. 

Lindsay with a pet rabbit.

Loving Bunny Mom

Random Hobby Doer

Random Hobby Doer

My coworkers are bunnies! I also volunteer with the Rocky Mountain House Rabbit Society. 

Coloring book page that says "carpe the fucking diem."

Random Hobby Doer

Random Hobby Doer

Random Hobby Doer

Sometimes it's ice skating, sometimes it's watercolor painting, sometimes it's good old-fashioned coloring.


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